We are going to need 4 blank pages for this (I hope you have a few pages left)
Title the four pages as follows:
Page 1: ADVENTURES
Page 2: SEX
Page 3: FUN
Page 4 you are going to split in Half (draw a horizontal line) and title the first section: TEACH and the second section LEARN
Now on each page you are going to come up with a minimum number of ideas of items in these topics we can do together in the next year or so. Anything goes they can be as small or as large as you’d like sure, crazy things are permitted.
So here are your categories once again, your minimum number of ideas and a few examples to get you going (feel free to use them to get yourself started) Remember no idea is too big, too small or too crazy.
ADVENTURES - 20 ideas – suggestions for small or large adventures you and your partner can go on.
Ex:
- Go to the mall with a camera in hand, go into different stores and dress up in the craziest outfits possible and take snap shots in the dressing room.
- Attempt to get on the roof of the tallest building in your city.
- Take a road trip for the weekend.
SEX – 15 ideas – ideas for everything and anything for you and your partner to do, try, learn, etc regarding your sex lives.
Ex:
- Go to an Adult store and buy something to spice up the bedroom
- Find and Old Polaroid Camera and Film, shoot some retro style risqué photos
- Make/Buy blindfolds
FUN – 15 ideas – Ideas for everyday fun things you can do.
Ex:
- Attend a free cooking class.
- Paint a canvas together.
- Check out a local stand up comedy event.
Learn – 5 things you want to learn from them
Ex: (I want my partner to teach me)
- A language
- Drive a manual transmission
- etc.
Teach – 5 things you want to teach them
Ex: (things I want to teach my partner how to)
- How do solve a Sudoku Puzzle
- Make a particular food
- etc
You have 3 days for you to each complete this. At first you may find it really hard to come up with ideas, but once you get a few out your brain will kick into gear and you'll be filling up each section. Feel free to fill up the page and exceed the set minimum for ideas. They can range from anything big or small. No idea is a bad idea.
Don’t worry about overlapping ideas, you'll probably overlap on your ideas or even use some of the examples. Once you have this completed sit down and compare your ideas and then go out and start completing them. You will learn more about the person you are with and you'll have a lot of fun in the process.
J.
ReplyDeleteExcellent idea good sire, I've added it to the delicious bookmark so I can revisit this and get things started. Things aren't stale by any means but something like this brings the relationship back to that "dating" time when the energy was high and the thrill of adventure and anticipation was a major factor.
Absolutely love it, and will be posting you on my progress as soon as we have our sit down!
L.